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ambivalent // User Search/whois Mr. Kwok LiSep 21, 2002, 9:53am
opinions and flaming and stuffSep 22, 2002, 1:46am
As a relative newbie to this forum, but a participant in quite a number of
other forums, I'm wondering why it is so difficult in here for people to tolerate the opinions of others, even when they are expressed in polite terms. I can't say it's the first time I've seen this sort of thing, but in my experience in other forums, where you have a large number of bright, talented people, as here in the AW community, there is usually more tolerance for differences. A number of people have told me they wouldn't dare to post their opinions in here for fear of the flames. An inability to freely speak thwarts discussions from which the group could benefit. I post this in all sincerity (and sure hope I won't get flamed for offering my observation, and asking about it). Could some of the 'old timers' offer me some insight on this? And is there a certain way in which it's sort of expected that opinions be offered that is tolerated better than other ways? Thanks - Kerstin (formerly ambivalent) opinions and flaming and stuffSep 22, 2002, 2:01am
i wasn't really talking about posts with ludicrous ideas in them. thinking
more of the ones that are straightforward, but the person just has a different viewpoint. and thanks for the offer of protection. * runs and hides behind bowen * [View Quote] opinions and flaming and stuffSep 22, 2002, 5:36am
i didn't think about that, ananas, but that probably does have something to
do with it. in the other newsgroups i belong to, very few people associate with each other outside of posts to the NG, so that kind of lends validity to what you say. interesting point. [View Quote] opinions and flaming and stuffSep 23, 2002, 1:26am
I just wanted to thank everyone who has taken the time to respond. Your
thoughtful opinions, advice, and cautions are well taken, and very much appreciated. Thank you for sharing them. I think there are wise words for most of us in these posts, and I know I am going to make a sincere effort to heed them. Thank you again - Kerstin [View Quote] best av ever!Sep 22, 2002, 2:10pm
I have just seen the most incredibly adorable av I have ever seen, and I am
a real av lover. This one was just finished by Sonja. It's in Avason, and called 'babygirl' in the second half of the av list. I have never seen anything like it. Well worth a peek. Oh, if you've already seen Sonja's existing baby avs, this is not like them -- this one is different and very, very special. :) thanks - Kerstin Aw Video 4 Almost coming outSep 24, 2002, 9:00am
awesome job, pineriver! i've tried to describe AW to people at work, and
some just can't envision it. i'm gonna show your video to them today. what kind of software do you use to make something like that? Kerstin just so you knowSep 27, 2002, 9:39am
* sigh *
Kerstin [View Quote] > ...would you just shut up Linn? > Maybe you should do your reasearch, Ironhead... > > Anyone up for sacrificing Linn to get ol' Eep back? *raises hand* > -- > - Syntax - > http://www.swcity.net > http://forum.swcity.net > [View Quote] just so you knowSep 27, 2002, 11:13am
Linn, goober is right. The Cy Awards have nothing to do with the community,
or with Active Worlds as a whole. It is a private awards program, started by, and run by a few people. I made the same mistake in thinking that this program was at a community or Active Worlds level. It's not. The 'Cy means Community' slogan they use apparantly refers only to the fact that they, as goober points out, allow the community to vote. Other than that, it has nothing to do with the community as a whole that I can see. Goob is right -- they are free to make up any rules they wish, no matter how crazy. The same as you and I, Linn, could start our own little private awards program tomorrow, and we could make up any rules we want. Usually though, with programs like this, if people don't like the way it is, they can just choose not to participate. In this case, what's odd is that when you tell them you don't like it and you don't want to participate, they force you to. (People who attempt to withdraw are told they are not "allowed" to. Go look at all the signs for all the people who have withdrawn still up in the new voting center.) Finally, what really sums it up is goob's final statement about people getting a taste of power. The people who run this awards program have come to believe that they wield significant power. When pleaded with to be a bit more open minded and open up the program so that it is more for the community, they feel threatened because they fear the loss of what they see as their power. The best thing to do at this point, for the people who want an awards program that is fair, equitable, for the community, and recognizes talent, instead of just being some odd sort of popularity contest, is to do what the Cy group has done -- start another awards program that *is* geared toward the community and *does* recognize talent. Anyone and everyone is free to do so. This is my last post on the topic of the Cy awards. Kerstin [View Quote] |