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Help Wanted // Communityseiya fayeJan 28, 2003, 5:28pm
Hye guys, dont laugh, but i was wondering if somebody would want to hang out
with me and be like my bestest friend to help me with my social skills and anger problems too. And nobody say the predictable 'i have a shrink that i could reccomend' comment. -love and befriend Seiya Faye binarybudJan 28, 2003, 5:43pm
This is encouraging hon....:)
If your serious there are lots of things to read on the net... http://www.meddybemps.com/7.27.html good luck Leo :) aka asshole [View Quote] goober kingJan 28, 2003, 7:23pm
I believe she said she wanted a friend, not a groupie. ;P
[View Quote] -- Goober King Chiana for President... of the Seiya Fan Club!! modJan 28, 2003, 7:33pm
I have a good mental hospital I can recommend. Double insulated 'jackets'
for the winter :P -Mod [View Quote] modJan 28, 2003, 11:26pm
count draculaJan 29, 2003, 2:54am
Not sure how serious you are in this post, but the key to solving any
problem is admitting having a problem. I used to get mad quite easily and throw stuff around in my anger. These days people who did not know me back then, think I am the calmest guy and think I never get mad. I guess the thing that helped me most was, I simply started to think. Ok, will it help to get mad and do irrational things, or might there be another way? So these days when I am in situations where I would have blown a fuse in the "old days", I simply take a deep breath and try to think; what is the most logical thing to do now? One might think that taking a deep breath and counting to 10 sound like a cliché, but it really helps. The few seconds you stop to calm down are the most critical, it is then when the damage is done. I do not say this always help, but if it atleast help a few times in the beginning, one might be able to develop into some kind of system that suites oneselves best. Anger is an emotion, and emotions twist our logical thinking (like other things like religion, laws, traditions). What come to social skills, I am quite lost. One thing that might help is trying to imagine how do the other person feel if I do this or that, and also try to understand why someone has said and acted as she/he has. I have a good friend, I think we have never agreed on anything, yet never fought . There is an old finnish proverb ( freely translated) "let matters argue, not persons". So if one disagree with someone, one should try to stay on the "topic" what the argue is about and not starting to attack the person for what she/he is or stands for. Not sure if this is helping any, these are just my views and I am no "shrink". It has just helped me, so I doubt it will hurt trying:) Drac the wuss seiya faye <starbuilds at yahoo.com> kirjoitti viestissä:3e36d9d6$1 at server1.Activeworlds.com... > Hye guys, dont laugh, but i was wondering if somebody would want to hang out > with me and be like my bestest friend to help me with my social skills and > anger problems too. And nobody say the predictable 'i have a shrink that i > could reccomend' comment. > -love and befriend > Seiya Faye > > baron sweetmanJan 29, 2003, 11:28am
"seiya faye" <starbuilds at yahoo.com> wrote in
news:3e36d9d6$1 at server1.Activeworlds.com: > Hye guys, dont laugh, but i was wondering if somebody would want to > hang out with me and be like my bestest friend to help me with my > social skills and anger problems too. And nobody say the predictable > 'i have a shrink that i could reccomend' comment. > -love and befriend > Seiya Faye > > LOL, hang out with chlorpromazine, works like a charm :) j b e l lJan 30, 2003, 7:15am
yanstJan 30, 2003, 4:42pm
hicks8Jan 30, 2003, 7:28pm
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